This isn’t about grieving, just assuming the complete absence of your family and all the inheritance.
I’d pay off my medical debt and go back to university. I’m so tired. I just want to learn and stop struggling. I don’t even qualify for my own debt so I have to have it in someone else’s name, being bound to an abuser…
Your situation sounds like it has some red flags. It might be worth asking Lemmy specifically for advice on that and get an outside opinion.
As for the question? My parents own a house. I’d make it a home for my few friends who can’t afford one and move on in.