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  • GhostFace@lemmy.todaytoMemes@sopuli.xyzAnyone had this?
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    13 hours ago

    Is it vibes if they’ve already done something shitty and people just ignore it until it happens to them?

    I’m still messed up from what a certain someone did to me in high school, and it’s taken her slowly treating the rest of our mutuals the same one by one for each of them to reach the same conclusion that I had back then. Except some of them deciding that they still want her in their life for whatever reason. People seem to have this weird idea that they can manage her or deal with her to prevent her from hurting them.
















  • Not excusing the behavior because it’s not right, but I think it could be a major problem stemming from this platform and how it’s organized. This place seems to be too small for that to be effective. The majority of the people on this site might not want to see something, but if a small group does then their activity is enough to push it to the front page anyway.


  • GhostFace@lemmy.todaytoMildly Infuriating@lemmy.world*Permanently Deleted*
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    17 days ago

    Can we not put her on a pedestal and make her a representation of all women here?

    I’ve been reading through their content and I can sort of see why people don’t like them.

    I know there’s a lot of misogyny on the platform, it’s everywhere and escaping it is impossible, but I don’t necessarily think it’s the case for them? They just mostly seem disingenuous and posting for attention. People naturally tend to not like that.