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Cake day: March 12th, 2025

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  • Some hobbies don’t have enough “news” content. To make up for that you need more than a couple of active posters showing off what they’ve built or made.

    Not to mention, every instance could theoretically have a community for a specific hobby and it splits up the activity even more. And if I sub to all those communities I generally tend to get the same post over and over again in my feed.

    Then when it comes to things like news my experience has been it becomes like an echo chamber and any dissenting opinion is met with open hostility. Yes, it’s a two way street, but this post is a perfect example.

    The more users you have, the less the hostility has a chance to gain hold on a post. I’ve had some really great interactions in my short time on Lemmy, but I’ve also had and seen more hostility when I tried to be civil.




  • You know….

    There are roughly 7 million people on SSDI. A good chunk of those who of us on SSDI are at poverty level or less.

    There are roughly 18 million veterans. Many of them have been at poverty level or less.

    You could give 25 million people who are either veterans or disabled a million dollars tax-free and no strings attached and you would improve their quality of life drastically.

    But, no, the Orange King needs his ego soothed and inflated by having a fucking parade on his birthday. Absolutely disgusting and I really hope there will be a major protest at the same time. I might use the meager finances I have and take a trip to D.C. for that.

    The irony? Some of those men and women from the military in that parade will be left to rot once their service is over.


  • This is a pet peeve of mine. If you aren’t disabled use the damn phone as a phone and use FaceTime in private.

    I don’t want to hear about the latest drama your ex is involved in and who’s doing who to god knows what. I also don’t want to be in the background while you are standing in line FaceTiming someone and they comment on the person behind them on camera.

    And then the people who actually use the phone as a phone but have the most obnoxiously loud one-sided conversation.

    I may be slightly biased, I use public transportation and have to listen to this shit every day. I wear hearing aids so I hear everything at one which makes it even more fun.


  • https://www.kff.org/tracking-the-medicaid-provisions-in-the-2025-budget-bill/

    • Requires states to conduct eligibility redeterminations at least every 6 months for Medicaid expansion adults.

    I’m on Medicaid currently because I’m on SSDI. I have to recertify my eligibility every year. It takes the local office 4-5 months to make the determination. A LOT of people are going to get left behind if this happens. Local offices will never be able to keep up and people are going to lose coverage.

    Those of us on the bottom of society that have to utilize the safety net already had to go through hell to get approved in the first place in most cases. These assholes lack empathy completely because they’ve never had to utilize the safety net and think we’re lying or something about needing it.

    If you’re in the U.S. and have never needed any kind of government assistance, let me clarify the process a bit:

    • Imagine you’re on a plane and you have to jump out with a parachute to get to safety. That’s scary.
    • Just before you jump, you’re told you have to charge up the parachute release by free falling through rings in the sky. That are on fire.
    • You make it through all the rings of fiery death and your parachute doesn’t open because it didn’t charge up the release for some reason (why would it, in what world does it make sense to have to do that?)
    • As you’re falling you see what looks to be like a bouncy house on the ground. Lucky for you there’s a safety net halfway between you and the ground.
    • The safety net has a tiny tear in it and as you fall into the net the tear becomes a split down the entire net and you continue falling.
    • Bracing for impact into the bouncy house you can see it’s starting to sag a little. Is it leaking air? Will you make it in time before the air is completely out?
    • The bouncy house had enough air to keep you safe thankfully and you never touch the ground until the air completely deflates from the bouncy house.
    • Oh but wait…you’ve been on solid ground for a year? Nope, you’re going to repeat the process only this time instead of a bunch of rings of fire you only have to go through one. But there’s no safety net…and no parachute. Just the ring of fire and the slowly leaking bouncy house on the “ground”.

    They’re not taking Medicaid away, they’re just purposefully making it harder to keep it. So technically they didn’t “cut” Medicaid. Because, after all, Trump didn’t lie when he said Medicaid and Social Security were off the table, right?


  • I learned my lesson about “lifetime” thanks to SiriusXM.

    When Howard Stern got lured to SiriusXM they offered a deal where you buy the receiver and pay $500 for a lifetime subscription with unlimited transfers to different receivers. Fat forward to 2017ish when I bought my last car that had the receiver built into the radio and tried to transfer to the new one. I was told that was the last time I would be able to do that and in the future I’d be paying a $75 transfer fee and be forced into a monthly subscription.

    Lifetime is a hoax.





  • DEI and “woke culture” made me feel seen as a person with a disability and a facial paralysis. 100 years ago I would have been an orphan and hidden away. Not long before that I would have been “sacrificed” as an evil baby.

    Did corporations cash in on that? Yes they did because that’s all corporations are supposed to do is make money and bleed the consumer.

    If you are anti-woke and anti-DEI then you’re really saying you want to include everyone who looks like you and relegate those who don’t to obscurity either by way of deportation, exile, slavery, or death. It’s exactly like what every country perpetuating genocide has done in history.

    What is your solution to my problem of again not feeling like I can go out in public because of this administration’s policies. What about to the LGBTQIA people who are afraid that their marriage will be nulled or are also afraid to go out in public?

    Are you ok with fixing people different from you back to isolation, declining mental health, and attempts to take their life because of getting rid of DEI?






  • But…the whole point of Medicaid was that it is there to cover those who are poor because they wouldn’t be able to afford health care otherwise.

    I’m on SSDI and get Medicaid and Medicare with the only cost to me being the Medicare Part B coverage that is close to $200/month. I don’t pay copays or for any of my prescriptions. However I have noticed the quality of my healthcare from the same doctor that I had while on private pay health insurance has taken a nosedive. My guess is the office doesn’t want to deal with Medicaid or Medicare more than they have to. Or my health could just be that bad, either way it’s worse.

    If this proposal ends up as legislation I would end up having to pay copays for health services and prescriptions I use right now that would most likely not be financially viable. If Medicaid gets taken away from me completely I lose all access and if stopping medications doesn’t kill me then the lack of oxygen due to extreme sleep apnea will.

    I’m so sick of being terrified the last few months (SSDI, Medicaid/Medicare, and HUD housing). Just fucking do it already and get this over with instead of fucking torturing those of us at the bottom more than we’ve already been tortured just going through the process of trying to get access to these programs.



  • I don’t know if it’s necessarily a problem with AI, more of a problem with humans in general.

    Hearing ONLY validation and encouragement without pushback regardless of how stupid a person’s thinking might be is most likely what creates these issues in my very uneducated mind. It forms a toxically positive echo-chamber.

    The same way hearing ONLY criticism and expecting perfection 100% of the time regardless of a person’s capabilities or interests created depression, anxiety, and suicidal ideation and attempts specifically for me. But I’m learning I’m not the only one with these experiences and the one thing in common is zero validation from caregivers.

    I’d be ok with AI if it could be balanced and actually pushback on batshit crazy thinking instead of encouraging it while also able to validate common sense and critical thinking. Right now it’s just completely toxic for lonely humans to interact with based on my personal experience. If I wasn’t in recovery, I would have believed that AI was all I needed to make my life better because I was (and still am) in a very messed up state of mind from my caregivers, trauma, and addiction.

    I’m in my 40s, so I can’t imagine younger generations being able to pull away from using it constantly if they’re constantly being validated while at the same time enduring generational trauma at the very least from their caregivers.