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Cake day: January 13th, 2026

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  • Oh, wild, didn’t know that. I hadn’t gotten into it when it came out.

    I did kind of toy around with the idea of throwing Endless Eight into the rest of the series every couple of episodes instead of back to back if I rewatch. I was kinda tired of it by 6, plus I think the deja vu every couple episodes would be fun

    I do still think the confusion was kinda fun, in a certain way. That does explain why episodes 16-28 were chronological though


  • I mean, the entirety of my interaction with my parents was:

    Mom: Dumped me on her mom, and grandma

    Dad: Left the state to chase tail

    So, y’know. Short list of things not to do.

    In terms of adults in general:

    • If a kid is failing in school despite knowing the material, maybe something is wrong.
    • Do not give an 8 year old unrestricted access to the internet when LiveLeak was a thing
    • If a therapist says the kid has depression/anxiety, don’t bring them to another therapist just because one of the drugs that’s prescribed for that can cause suicidal ideation in some preteens
    • If a therapist lets you stay in the room while the session is going on, the kid is 100% lying to everyone in that room, maybe even themselves
    • Don’t stay in the room with the therapist
    • Literally those last 3 points are what keeps therapy from working for me. I can’t trust therapists at all. DO. NOT. DO. THAT.
    • If you’re religious, and your religion is anti-queer, your child can still be queer, they’ll just be miserable, and not trust you

    I think that’s it, really. Aside one thing: They’re people, not property. Treat them like people, and you’ll have a lot better time with them.



  • For comparability with each other, this table from Hagezi’s block list on github is a good reference

    Honestly the difference mostly comes down to the software you use, from what I can tell. Generally if you use an extension it will be more comprehensive in the blocking, since some sites (like YouTube) serve ads from their own domains.

    Also, the Adblock format is what’s used by a lot of the software that blocks ads at a DNS level, at least that consumers will use. Per the table it supports Pi-hole, AdGuard, AdGuard Home, eBlocker, uBlock Origin, Brave (only in aggressive mode), AdNauseam, and Little Snitch Mini, which is pretty comprehensive.

    Aside that there’s hosts if you want to do it on a Linux desktop. I don’t recommend that, as you need to manually update the list every so often, though I’m sure it could be automated if you really want to.

    Personally I just shoved one of Hagezi’s into AdGuard Home and called it a day. I check it about once a week to see what domains are getting pinged most, and block any suspicious ones.

    Edit: No idea why the table condensed that much in the picture, removing it since it’s not really useful if you can’t see the whole table










  • Personally, I like it being there. I don’t dislike it any more than I dislike romance in media. When it makes sense, it’s great! It can add a lot to a story. When it doesn’t make sense? It can completely take me out.

    Some of the best stories I’ve interacted with have been heavy on the sex, but they’re also heavy on a lot of other things, including using the sex as part of the symbolism for the rest of the narrative. Hell I played a game where the overall theme (at least, that I got from it) was “Consent makes things better,” shown via repeated mutual noncon.

    I’ve also read some stories where it was all porn, no plot, and got bored about 7 pages in. If I just want porn, video is what I end up going to, I’m reading because I want a story with it. I’m not about to sit down to watch a 1:30 porno either; I’d need a little more justification than “I’m stuck in a dryer, help!” to stay invested for 90 minutes.

    I tend to feel like there are wider forces at play with how sex in media happens, though. Especially when you look at some of the stuff coming out of other countries, and how differently they treat sex? A lot of US movies treat the sex as disposable. You can remove the sex, and get the same story, and I think that’s my actual problem with it. I remember accidentally playing the censored version of one game, and then I replayed it uncensored, and it was a vastly different experience. Censored, one of the characters was just an absolute monster with 0 motivation beyond being a horrible person. Uncensored, though? I felt kinda bad for her. The sex scenes humanized her a lot in ways that the rest of the game just… Didn’t.

    All to say, it’s a tool in a box. You can do a lot with it, but a lot of people don’t do much with it, and it bums me out.



  • According to my device:

    • September: 30mb
    • October: 153mb
    • November: 652mb
    • December: 889mb

    Not sure why September was so low, but I’m not surprised it’s <1gb/mo. I didn’t really have unlimited data until a couple of years ago, and I don’t really sit around watching videos out of the house. It’s mostly music, which my music is all downloaded on my phone anyway.

    The spike in November is because I moved. I started walking to the store, and the internet here is less consistent, so I’m using my data more.