But did actually anyone actually pirate your music? Like is your music on a torrent indexer or shared on a site specific to music?

I have heard from friends that they got banned for using adblockers on free Spotify.

My account got deactivated after doing that (firefox+ublock). It was really sneaky because my password just stopped working. My account was reactivated by contacting the support and they never told me the reason why my account got deactivated.

You seem to have really high standards around who you trust and in the same moment you call Telegram secure. I feel like you should atleast use the same amount of scepticism for Telegram that you use for Signal.

This might not be relevant because you have other reasons not to use Signal, but you can get android signal directly from their website and via aurora store (on fdroid)

Just use Signal if you want an easy, relatively privacy friendly and secure messenger.

Telegram hands over data to goverments, is infested with spammers and scammers and its encryption is not end to end for group chat which lets Telegram access those chats.

Edit: Telegram is great for lots of things like big groups, communities, piracy, drugs etc but its just not the place where you should expect secure communication.

On other platforms like Twitter and Mastodon the block functionality is pretty helpful. Using block lists improves the experience of those that get most often targeted tremendously.

How matrix with its end to end encryption giving my data to everyone???

Because it is essentially a prison, a place to control you while seperating you from the general population.

Also I am sorry that happened to you.

Is that something others brought up somewhere else? I am asking because this is a continuous topic since the sub was created, but to my knowledge only in discussions on slrpnk.net

I get you and I am sorry the comments are as shitty as they are.

Everyone, please report those comments that dont fit in !twoxchromosomes@slrpnk.net,

I think its great to have a range of options when confronted with a situation like that. If someone wants to antagonize someone for gatekeeping, all power to them and if they want to just get out of the situation with the least amount of trouble, then the same.

Being able to respond to situations in multiple ways instead of just one gives people real autonomy and can feel really empowering.

Earlier, some people had concerns that Lemmy’s 2XC would be co-opted by TERF women. It is ironic to me that it feels instead it is dominated by men discussing aspects of masculinity with other men.

This is something I noticed in so many threads.

Well obviously one was done by fascists and the other was done by communists.

Comparing two really different ideologies with just one aspect / event and saying they are essentially the same is not really the way to go. Coming from a country that has a history with liberal capitalism, state socialism/communism and fascism I feel like its really unsettling how you are throwing together the different ideologies.

Communism and Fascism are really different in as many aspect as they are similar. Especially because fascism and communism both really vary from the specific context they got to power. Like fascism in austria was different from fascism in germany or communism in china is different than it was in poland.

You can send Mullvad cash as payment method

Soooooo many captchas. And some websites just pretend to have weird errors which stop the moment I shut off the VPN

I think we can already see a case of this in the replies to your comment.

The thing is, she seems really mature

Every time I read this I cringe. Because most of the time this comes from someone that cant really judge that. You dont seem to know each other for a long time or have a deep connection.

Besides that I wish both of you the best and maybe it turns out as some of the positive stories in the other comments. Or not. Both are ok.

Someone having that data is a problem in itself

Cite. Your. Facts. Always.

How about no? Thats just your preference

Hey just wondering why you are asking for citations without providing any of your own? Because besides your own opinions and experiences you dont seem to provide any citations to back up your statements.

And just so you know, you can try to find citations for claims made in the comic on you own. Or do you want to do some Executive Function Theft and let someone else do the work?

Edit: Instead of reading that long ass response I looked for scientific stuff myself and found this in a short amount of time:

Mental Labor: A Systematic Literature Review on the Cognitive Dimension of Unpaid Work Within the Household and Childcare

Predominantly, the articles show that women perform the larger proportion of mental labor, especially when it comes to childcare and parenting decisions.