Through a package of proposed reforms to the Temporary Assistance for Needy Families program, or TANF, the administration plans to shore up the U.S. social safety net. The regulations are intended to ensure that more federal and state welfare dollars make it to low-income families, rather than being spent on other things or not spent at all.
The proposal, drawn up by the federal Administration for Children and Families, is open for public comment until Dec. 1. Once comments are reviewed, officials plan to issue final regulations that could take effect in the months after that, heading into the 2024 election.
Funding is insufficient to address the problems I pointed to in my comment. It’s not about money; it’s about parenting and the related psychological skills. The only thing that can address that is complex social support; not just teaching of specific skills but relational improvements. I’m a therapist in a community mental health clinic. In addition to definable psychiatric disorders, I can tell you that at least half of what we treat is effectively the psychosocial consequences of generational poverty. In other words, we deal with “ghetto”, “ratchet,” “x-trash” people. These are people who don’t necessarily qualify for any psychiatric diagnosis, but are nonetheless folks who no one wants to deal with in life. They’re the products of bad parenting, who haven’t been taught how to manage their emotions, and thus react in extreme ways to minor stressors, which makes them an annoyance and a threat to people we consider “normal.” These folks need re-parenting. They’re broken in a real sense, and I don’t put it that way to diminish them. They weren’t given the things we take for granted, and as such they can’t function in ways we expect them to. And it’s not fair to expect “normal” people to tolerate them either, because those “normal” people weren’t prepared to deal with them. This is a hugely complex problem and it requires a solution that likely requires decades to fix, because it is generational in nature.