• FaceDeer@kbin.social
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    5 months ago

    A quick Googling of “phones without Facebook” gives lots of options.

    Facebook (and one assumes Threads/Instagram) create ghost profiles of everyone mentioned or photographed in any posts on their platform if they can’t link that mined data to an actual account. So if your friends use the platform, then you do too, whether you know it or not.

    This would be Facebook using your friends’ data. It happens to be about you, but it’s not yours.

    I’m not saying people shouldn’t care about privacy or take actions to protect it, but I think it’s possible to go overboard in believing that nobody is allowed to know anything about you without your permission. There’s a lot of public information that’s available to anyone simply by being in public.

    If you don’t want your friends telling people about you, that’s on you to tell your friends that. If your friends refuse to keep your existence secret then you’ll have to decide whether that’s more important to you than having friends.