• 🦄🦄🦄@feddit.de
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    5 months ago

    That’s both sad and creepy.

    How is it either of those things? Let people fuck who they want to fuck as long as it is consentual, who cares?

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      5 months ago

      “Hey babe. I made a mistake. I want to get back together.”

      “Sure no problem! Me too! I just need to plow through this list of dudes I’m gonna fuck first.”

      Seems like an awfully shitty thing to do to someone that’s genuinely interested in you.

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        5 months ago

        You cheat on someone: you’re a worthless piece of shit.

        You don’t get back together with someone because you want to have sex with other people first: you’re sad and creepy.

        One can never win when it comes to sex in a puritanical society, unless they very faithfully only have sex with one person.

      • AlDente@sh.itjust.works
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        5 months ago

        Sounds kinda hot to me. To spice things up, I’d want to hear all about it when we get back together.

        E: Kink shamers, the lot of you! I’d rather be with an experienced lady over someone who’s only been with me.

    • gianni@lemmy.ca
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      5 months ago

      Making a list of people to fuck can be a bit creepy for exactly the reason you mentioned: consent—or the absence of it.