For example, my car is parked in a single lane driveway, mom’s car is in the garage, she opens the garage door, zooms backwards and puts a hole in my front bumper with her trailer hitch. Then she comes inside to wake me up and yell at me. Is that just an extension of narcissism or what words are there to describe someone like that?
That’s so specific there has to be a yiddish word for it. IIRC a “schlemiel” is a guy who goes to a fancy dinner and spills his soup, and a “schlamazel” is the guy he spills it on. There has to be a word for somebody who uses scapegoats.